

Who We Are
Prime Timers St. Louis (PTSL) is a social organization open to mature men (21 years and older) who self-identify as gay, bisexual or trans men. We provide fellowship through social, educational, and recreational activities in a safe, positive and supportive environment.
PTSL is a non-profit, non-political social organization and a local chapter of PrimeTimers® Worldwide.
We Value Diversity and Inclusion!
Contact Us
Email: Contact Form
Phone: (314) 467-0445 (Missouri)
USPS: Prime Timers St. Louis
87 Grasso Plaza #241
Saint Louis, MO 63123
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Note: Address is a PM Box only. Phones are usually answered by voice mail. Please leave a message. Calls will be returned as quickly as possible.
What We Do
Our members create a variety of events and activities so every member can participate and enjoy friendship and fellowship with other older gay, bisexual or trans men.
Our Membership meetings are held four times a year. Please check our calendar for specific dates and times. These meetings include social fellowship along with educational topics that are relevant to our membership. Other activities include:
Brunches, Potlucks, Dining out, and picnics
Movies, Plays, and Game Nights
Local trips to museums, walking tours, and other points of interest
Outdoor Activities such as cycling, camping, hiking and golf
Out of Town Trips by carpooling, bus, and train
Day Trips to the countryside and nearby towns
See upcoming events below or click Calendar for a list of events by month.
Click here for our Prime Timers St. Louis brochure.
How to Join or Renew Your Membership
NEW: We now offer an online application. You can also pay your dues online. Click HERE to pay using Square.
If you prefer the in-person method, click on our membership application. Print the PDF, fill it out, and bring it along with your payment to an upcoming event or you can mail both to the USPS address in the “Contact Us” section.You can also scan your completed application and email to [email protected].
For more information on how our chapter operates, click on: Bylaws and/or Policies and Procedures.
Events
Scroll down this page for more events. If you are looking for an event in the future, you might want to click “Calendar” at the top of this page and then select the month you are looking for.
Prime Timers Tri-City Gathering
Save the date for the Tri-City Gathering, representing the memberships of the three great Prime Timers Chapters in our state, Prime Timers Kansas City (PTKC), Prime Timers Mid-Missouri (PTMM) based in Columbia, and of course our…
Clayton, MO 63117 United States
Gateway Men’s Chorus Grand Garden Gala
Piper Palm House at Tower Grove Park RSVP NOW FOR THE GRAND GARDEN GALA A MAGNIFICENT NIGHT FOR A MAGNIFICENT CAUSE You are cordially invited to join the Gateway Men's Chorus on Saturday, May 10th…
St. Louis, 63110 United States
Band Together – Pops Concert
The next Band Together performance will be the Pops Concert, Saturday, May 10, 2025, from 7:30pm to 9:30pm at 560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Avenue, St. Louis, 63130. Band Together concerts are always free.
University City, 63130 United States
MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged
Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to [email protected] so that your host Michael D will know who is attending. Arrive…
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
Oakland House Museum Tour and Catered Lunch
This is a lesser-known St. Louis (Affton) historic treasure. The Oakland House Museum's architecture, interior design and grounds are magical. We'll enjoy a docent tour of the house and then have a catered lunch served…
Affton, 63123 United States
SAGE Table at Rooster on South Grand
Join us for SAGE Table on May 14 at 5:30 p.m. at Rooster on South Grand (which is a Free NON-fundraising event). PTSL has participated in this event several times in the past and it…
St. Louis, MO 63118 United States
Spring Weekend at Wilderness Lodge
Guys, you're invited to join us for a getaway to the country. We're again headed down to the Ozark Mountains near Lesterville, Missouri. The fresh springtime air and the crystal-clear waters of the Black River…
Lesterville, MO 63654 United States
Sunday Brunch at Golden Oak Pancake Mackenzie Plaza
Please join us for Sunday Brunch at Golden Oak Pancake Mackenzie Plaza, 7289 Watson Road, St. Louis MO 63119. Date: May 18, 2025 Time: 12:30pm to 2:00pm Please email us so that we know if…
St. Louis, MO 63119 United States
Black Tulip Chorale Performance, A Fond Embrace
The next Black Tulip Chorale performance, A Fond Embrace, BTC’s May 2025 Concert, will be held at 3:00pm on Sunday, May 18, at First Presbyterian Church of Kirkwood, 100 East Adams, Kirkwood. Cost is $15.00…
Kirkwood, 63122 United States
Just John Birthday Monday
Celebrate your birthday month with your fellow PTSL members at Just John Birthday Monday! At Just John Birthday Monday, celebrated the 3rd Monday of every month, the birthday celebrant is treated to a bucket of…
St. Louis, 63110 United States
GROUP VISIT: NEON MUSEUM OF ST. LOUIS (With optional dinner beforehand)
OPTIONAL DINNER From 5:15 PM to 6:15 PM Captain D's, 920 South Grand, St. Louis NEON MUSEUM OF ST. LOUIS From 6:30 PM to 7:30 PM 3527 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis The Museum Is a…
St. Louis, 63103 United States
FREE ZOOM TALK: THE CITY OF ST. LOUIS ON THE NATIONAL REGISTER OF HISTORIC PLACES
From 7:00 PM to 8:00 PM We have a wide variety of historic places ranging from the familiar to the not-so-familiar --- including factories, parks, houses, breweries, neighborhoods, banks, churches, and even a Coca-Cola syrup…
PTSL Board of Directors Zoom Meeting
Any member can participate in our Board of Directors meetings on Zoom. Please email Randy Martin [email protected] if you would like to attend. All board members will automatically receive an email notice of the Zoom…
PROMO Annual Brunch of Champions Celebration
Join us for PROMO’s annual Brunch of Champions Celebration Sunday, June 1 from 9:30 a.m. – 12 p.m. at 4 Hands Brewing Co. It is a fun event with great food and featuring a presentation…
St. Louis, 63104 United States
Lunch N Learn LGBTQ
AgeSmart Lunch N Learn LGBTQ Meeting will be held on Tuesday, from 12:30 – 2:00pm at 7 Bronze Pointe S, Ste B, Swansea, IL 62226. Reservations are required. Call (618) 222-6521 to reserve your space.
Swansea, IL 62226 United States